As promised here is the conclusion of the last domestic case I worked on.
(The other day I received a phone call from my
client who said she was ready to move forward but was she really?)
She said the words to my voice mail but seemed
under the influence of a childhood friend who was with her at the time of the
call. I’d hate think so but it seemed my
client was forced to call me and tell me she was ready to move on in order to
satisfy the need of her childhood friend’s to help her get out of a bad situation and my suspicions
were confirmed when I returned her phone call leaving a message on her voice
mail only to never hear from her again.
It is not my style to impose my services on someone who hires me even
though I feel they need the help to move out of a bad situation such as this
but to remind the person that I am there for them when and if they need
me. Did I mention my services of
coaching, counseling and educating are free of charge?
The ending result of this case remains to be
seen. My client still harvests her guilt
and emotions while stuck in a bad living situation and it will not end until
she pulls the plug. It has to come from
her and she has to have closure. She has
to be the one to say goodbye and to make sure the final curtain closes on this
relationship otherwise her once live in companion and abuser will forever know
that the door remains open.
I will continue to share my future cases and case history in order to help others. As always the anonymity of those involved will be regarded.
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